R.U.L.E.S

by writing this it makes me feel pathetic already
i know some of u may or may not agree with me on the points I am about to say ...
but i m just getting it out of my system ...
First of all, Thank you for reading it and I welcome comments if u have any ... (^^,)

My very own GOLDEN RULE ( for relationship)

RULE #1
DONT TRY TO BE A CURIOUS MONKEY
cos the more curious u get, u tend to start thinking too much and questioning or so called "interrogating" session will some how occur at anytime of the day
This can be really annoying but it may also fill their tummy, cos after the questionng, they are "full" hahah

-->this just gives them more room for improvement to become better liar

RULE #2
STOP MAKING EXCUSES FOR THEM
just becos u r in love with the man [who u think is i love with u too], that doesnt mean u have to make excuses for him when things happen.
stand up for ourselves and be rational

RULE #3
LOOK B4 U LEAP
well, as in think b4 u wanna say something to one cos,once its said and done, thats IT!
when we are angry, we tend to use harsh words and those words said can hurt at times, but not others - we may end up hurting ourselves

RULE #4
DONT EVER MAKE HIM FEEL ...
that he is more important than u are, never let them define who u are ... He is a man, nothing more nothing less... ( qouted from Oprah) and that compromise is two way street


*the above statement is just my personal point of view, i didnt mean to be rude to anyone ...
Thank you for reading (^^,) *